The Proverbs 31 passage has sparked more discussions, debates, and reflections than perhaps any other Bible passage about women.
Songs have been sung, poems composed, and books written—all inspired by these powerful verses.
But what does it really mean to be a Proverbs 31 woman?
This is a question I have pondered, reflected on, and researched on, in my heartfelt desire to be a godly woman just like the Proverbs 31 woman.
Perhaps, like me, you’ve asked yourself this question. And when you tried to “become,” the possibility of being “that godly woman” kept shifting like a mirage. You wondered if this was even possible.
Well, is it possible to be a godly woman like this near perfect woman we read about? Is this even conceivable in this time and generation?
In a world where feminism and modern ideals challenge traditional roles, this chapter remains both an inspiration and a point of contention.
This blog series, Tracking the Proverbs 31 Woman, takes an in-depth look at this passage, uncovering its wisdom and how it applies to women today.
Whether you’re new to this passage or seeking fresh insights, this series will guide you in understanding and applying its truths to your life.
Why the Proverbs 31 Woman Still Matters Today
As a young adult woman, I read Proverbs 31. I later read it severally after that. I was fascinated by this woman, dreaming up in my mind possibilities of marrying Mr. Right, having godly children, running an efficient household, and even bringing in a fortune from entrepreneurial ventures, just like the Proverbs 31 woman.
Thank God for the mercy and wisdom of God. It didn’t take long for me to realize that life doesn’t always take the idealistic picture we often form in our minds. Unless we were living in the Garden of Eden pre-fall, this “perfect” picture I had envisioned of how life was going to be wasn’t real.
I hence embarked on memorizing this Scripture, praying it back to God, and looking to Him to reveal to me what it means as He works in me.
Several years later, I wrote a book based on this passage. You can find it here if you’d like to buy a copy for yourself.
I later began what I’ve called The Formations of a Noble Woman, Proverbs 31 Program, where we study this passage for 3 months as women, seeking to align our lives to the will of God in light of this passage.
This exploration and study of this passage is what inspired this series. I trust that every post will help you as a woman towards being all that God made you to be.
As women redefine their roles in society, many struggle with the Proverbs 31 chapter.
Some see it as oppressive or outdated, while others embrace it as a blueprint for a life of purpose, wisdom, and godly character.
The reality? The Proverbs 31 woman is not a single historical figure but a model—a timeless representation of the qualities that honor God and uplift families and communities.
She is a goal for which to realize is a process. God calls us to grow into noble character, just as Jesus called His disciples, saying:
“Come, follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” (Matthew 4:19)
This passage is not about perfection but progress. It’s about trusting God to shape us into women of strength, wisdom, and grace. Freeing, isn’t it?
A Devotional Journey: What to Expect in This Series
This series will explore Proverbs 31 in a devotional style, offering:
Verse-by-verse insights:
We’ll take our time, sometimes lingering on a single verse for deeper reflection.
Practical applications:
Discover how to live out these principles in your daily life.
Encouragement for every woman:
Whether single, married, working, or at home, this passage has something for you.
Over the next 40 blog posts, we’ll examine the virtues, wisdom, and faith of the Proverbs 31 woman, trusting God to transform us along the way.
Who Is the Proverbs 31 Woman?
A quick glance at Proverbs 31 reveals that this woman:
- Is grounded in God
- Knows she’s fearfully and wonderfully made
- Has a godly character
- Has clarity concerning her identity and purpose
- Is hardworking, creative, and resourceful
- Cultivates God-honoring relationships
- Is wise and kind
- Is a blessing to her family and community
- Is rooted in faith and strength
A Process
But here’s something comforting: she doesn’t become this woman overnight.
Her “becoming” is a process—one that starts long before marriage and continues throughout her life.
King Lemuel’s mother gives this wisdom to her son as he seeks a wife, implying that a noble woman’s character is evident before she becomes a wife.
This means that whether married or single, you can start growing into the Proverbs 31 woman today.
Why “Tracking” the Proverbs 31 Woman?
To track someone means to follow them closely, learning from their journey. In this case, we’re tracking the Proverbs 31 woman to understand how her qualities can shape our own lives.
As you will soon notice in the subsequent posts, we’re calling this series Tracking the Proverbs 31 Woman Series.
We’ll study how she manages her home, her relationships, her faith, and her work.
We’ll uncover practical steps to apply these principles in our modern world.
This study is not about checking off a to-do list. It’s about developing a heart that seeks wisdom, diligence, and faith in everyday life.
Join the Journey!
This introduction is just the beginning! Are you ready to explore Proverbs 31 like never before?
Start the series with the next blog post here.
Want to dive deeper? Get my book on Proverbs 31 on Amazon Here.
Let’s grow together, one verse at a time.
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