For the longest time, my husband and I have had a morning routine. We’ve had slight variations to it depending on the seasons we’ve had in our lives.
On the whole though, we’ve kept to a morning routine with the same activities and practices.
Why have we had a morning routine all these years?
The benefits accrued from our morning routine have been immense. Even when we haven’t kept it perfectly, it’s when we look back over a season that we see progress, transformation, and tangible results of what we were engaged doing. We wouldn’t exchange this for anything.
This is what this post is about.
Establishing a God-centered morning routine as a couple can set the tone for a faith-filled and productive day.
A well-structured Christian morning routine helps prioritize spiritual growth, deepen the marital bond, and enhance personal development.
In this guide, we will walk through a biblical morning routine that has worked for us, sharing the benefits and practical steps to establish one in your life.
Why a Christian Morning Routine Matters
A faith-based morning routine helps you set the foundation for a successful and purpose-driven day.
My husband and I believe that a well-structured morning routine allows us to discipline ourselves to focus on what truly matters—our relationship with God, our marriage, and our personal growth.
There are days when we wake up feeling motivated, and other days when we feel like doing nothing. However, having a set routine ensures that we stay committed to our spiritual and personal goals, regardless of how we feel.
Many of the things that truly “move the needle” in life—such as personal growth, spiritual discipline, and productivity—require intentional effort.
By setting aside time in the morning, we can accomplish meaningful work before the distractions of the day take over.
So, how does our God-centered morning routine look like?
1. Prioritizing Rest: The Night Before
Our Christian morning routine actually starts the night before. We ensure that we sleep early to wake up refreshed. We strive to go to bed around 10 PM so that we can rise at 4 AM.
I consider myself a night owl considering that I like to work late into the night.
When we got married, my husband and I agreed to prioritize praying together before we start the day.
This meant waking up at the same time, especially when we realized waking up at different times was causing us to pray together sporadically rather than consistently.
I started working on my evening too so I could be in bed at 10. I will sometimes stretch to just before 11pm to accomplish a task but on the whole, we ensure to sleep early to wake up early.
I hence often find time to nap during the day when I’ve slept later that 10. I’m grateful to God that we’ve kept the discipline of praying together every day, still praying together on phone if one of us has travelled.
We also sleep in during our day of rest each week if we’ve had an exhausting week. Even then, we still are up early to pray together before taking the time to rest a little longer.
Adequate rest enables us to start the day with clarity and focus.
2. Waking Up Early
We wake up at 4 AM because we believe that early rising gives us uninterrupted time to engage in the most important activities of the day.
This time is peaceful and free from distractions, making it ideal for morning prayer, daily devotionals, and planning the day ahead.
I mentioned earlier that I consider myself a night owl. After reading the Scriptures though, I got convicted about God’s will for me to wake up early.
I’ve captured my biblical conviction and reflections on waking up early in this blog post here.
3. Prayer and Spiritual Connection
Before anything else, we start the day with morning prayer. We hold hands and take turns leading the prayer each morning.
This is a time to express gratitude, seek God’s guidance, and intercede for our family and community. By doing this together, we strengthen our spiritual connection and marital unity.
4. Reading the Word of God
After prayer, we dive into Scripture. We believe that reading God’s Word is equivalent to interacting with Him.
Spending time in the Bible helps us align our hearts with His will and receive divine direction for the day.
Incorporating a daily Bible reading plan ensures consistency in studying God’s Word.
Each year, we read through the Bible consistently, beginning in January and finishing in December. For several years now, God has enabled us to fulfill this goal year after year.
If you’re wondering how to read the Bible consistently and finish, I’ve explained how you can do this in this post here.
5. Devotional Journaling
Journaling is an essential part of our faith-filled morning routine. We use a structured method to reflect on what we have read and synthesize the key messages.
Writing down insights, prayers, and reflections helps us internalize the Word and apply it in daily life.
For women, I have developed a special journaling method called The Noble Woman Journaling Method, which provides a simple yet effective way to journal daily. You can find this resource linked here.
6. Sharing Daily Devotionals
My husband takes an extra step by writing a daily devotional and sharing it on social media platforms such as WhatsApp and Facebook.
This practice not only reinforces his personal understanding but also serves as an encouragement to others in our faith community.
7. Outdoor Refreshment & Household Chores
After our indoor spiritual activities, my husband likes to step outside to take care of plants and animals. This practice refreshes his mind and provides a moment of reflection.
A simple activity like watering plants or taking a short walk allows us to meditate on what we just learned from God’s Word, appreciate God’s creation, and transition smoothly into the rest of the day.
8. Scripture Memory
Memorizing Scripture is a key part of our Bible-based morning routine. While my husband memorizes verses before reading the Word, I prefer to do it afterward.
This practice helps us store God’s truth in our hearts and recall His promises throughout the day.
9. Writing and Content Creation
After our spiritual activities, I focus on writing. This could be drafting blog posts, editing my cookbook, or working on training materials.
Prioritizing writing in the morning ensures that I make consistent progress on important projects before the busyness of the day sets in.
This might look very different for you. It could mean an aspect of your life, entrepreneurial venture, or work that you can schedule to do early morning before other demands of the day chip away at your precious time.
Keep in mind that we’re not talking about a huge block of time. It could be thirty minutes each day. You’ll be surprised at how much you will get accomplish a season later.
Committing to write for just one hour each morning helped me complete 4 writing projects, one of them being our book based on the Proverbs 31 passage to help me minister to women more effectively as part of my calling. If you’d like to read the book, you can find it here.
I have a writing project now of a cookbook which I’m trusting God to complete soon.
Never take for granted those seemingly little snippets of time in the morning. Use them wisely for the glory of God.
10. Preparing Breakfast & Starting the Day
At around 9 AM, I prepare breakfast. While this may seem late for some households, we have structured our schedule in a way that allows flexibility.
Our family members can have a light snack earlier in the morning if needed. After breakfast at around 10 AM, we transition into the rest of our daily tasks.
The Benefits of a Faith-Based Morning Routine
1. Strengthening Our Faith
Having a structured morning routine has helped us grow spiritually. It ensures that we prioritize our relationship with God and consistently engage in His Word through prayer, Scripture reading, and devotionals.
2. Strengthening Our Marriage
Praying together, reading the Bible together, and discussing insights from God’s Word strengthen our marital bond. It creates a shared spiritual foundation that fosters unity and understanding.
3. Personal Growth & Productivity
A faith-based morning routine sets the foundation for a successful and purpose-driven day. By completing our most important tasks early, we feel accomplished and motivated to tackle the rest of the day’s responsibilities.
4. Consistency & Discipline
Having a structured morning routine keeps us disciplined. It ensures that we stay committed to our goals even when we don’t feel like it. Over time, small daily efforts lead to significant achievements in both spiritual and personal development.
5. Setting a Positive Example
Our morning routine sets an example for the young people we mentor. They see firsthand how a structured life rooted in faith leads to spiritual growth and personal success.
Encouragement for Couples
If you are a couple looking to establish a God-centered morning routine, here are some final words of encouragement:
- Start Small: You don’t have to do everything at once. Begin with morning prayer and Bible reading, and gradually add other activities. This is possible dear friend!
- Be Flexible: While routines are important, allow room for adjustments when necessary.
- Support Each Other: Encourage one another in maintaining the routine. Accountability makes it easier to stay consistent.
- Focus on What Matters: Prioritize activities that strengthen your faith, marriage, and personal growth.
- Remember the Bigger Picture: Your morning routine is not just about productivity; it’s about aligning your life with God’s purpose and growing in faith together.
Conclusion
A God-centered morning routine for couples is a powerful way to start the day with purpose and intention.
By prioritizing prayer, Scripture, and spiritual growth, you can strengthen your faith, deepen your marriage, and enhance personal productivity.
We encourage you to reflect on your current routine and consider ways to incorporate faith-based practices that align with your values and goals.
Little by little, you will see the impact of a structured and meaningful morning routine in your life.
Are you ready to start your God-centered morning routine? Let us know in the comments how you plan to implement these faith-based practices in your daily life!
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